52 Weeks, 52 Activities for Couples | A Year of Connection and Growth | Week 1 | Spend Time Outdoors

The first activity is inspired by the creation story itself. In Genesis Chapter 2 Verse 15, we read, 'YAH GOD took the man and placed him in the orchard in Eden to care for it and to maintain it.' This act of stewardship, of nurturing and cultivating, mirrors the very essence of a strong partnership. Just as Adam was entrusted with the care of Eden, Genesis 2:24 reveals the sacred bond of marriage, where a man leaves his father and his mother and cleave (hold fast) to his wife, and they become one flesh. You cannot become "one flesh" my brothers when you are married to your children, yourself, the world, your ex-girlfriend, your vehicle, your job, or anything or anyone else besides your wife, period! Both verses speak to the responsibility and intimacy of cultivating a blessed union, whether with the earth or with a spouse. Marriage is a journey and not a destination!

For this week's activity, I encourage you to spend time in nature together. Explore the wonders of nature with these activities:

Go for a walk in a park, hike a scenic trail, or simply sit under the stars and marvel at the beauty of creation. As you connect with the natural world, reflect on the wonder of your own connection and the divine spark that unites you. Discover how the busyness of life diminished this spark and how, going forward, you plan to prioritize spending time reconnecting with nature and each other. Some suggestions for the future are: gardening, (fruit and vegetables or maybe flower gardening); bike riding, camping, volunteer at neighborhood community gardens, city beautification projects, or start a new outdoor hobby together etc. The ideas are endless! The plan is to get you two together creating activities that deepens, strengthens, and/or re-ignite your bond and cultivate “oneness”.

As we conclude our journey through week one of 52 weeks of activities, remember that cultivating "oneness" is an ongoing process. It requires intentionality, effort, and a willingness to grow together.

Here's a bullet list of nature-based activities designed to foster connection and create shared memories:

• Hiking or Trail Walking: Explore scenic trails at state or national parks, enjoy breathtaking views while getting some beneficial exercise.
• Picnics in the Park or Backyard: Pack a delicious lunch and find a peaceful spot to enjoy each other's company amidst nature's beauty.
• Stargazing: Lay out a blanket, gaze at the night sky, and share stories under the stars.
• Kayaking or Canoeing: Paddle through serene waters, work together as a team, and enjoy the tranquility of nature.
• Camping: Spend a night or two under the stars, cook over a campfire, and enjoy the intimacy of the outdoors.
• Botanical Garden Visits: Stroll through colorful gardens, admire diverse plant life, and enjoy the peaceful atmosphere.
• Beach Walks: Take romantic walks along the shoreline, collect seashells, and enjoy the relaxing sound of the waves.
• Cycling: Explore bike trails, enjoy the fresh air, and get some exercise together.
• Nature Photography: Capture the beauty of nature together, admiring the wonder of GOD'S creation and documenting your adventures.
• Grilling Outdoors: Hungry anyone? How about dinner outside; just the two of you under the starlit sky with a few candles and a cozy fire pit for those chilly nights.
• Hot Springs: Relax in naturally heated mineral waters, and enjoy the romantic atmosphere.
• Fruit Farms: Where you can pick your own apples, pears, and other fruits.
• Berry Picking: Many farms allow you to pick your own berries, offering a fun and family-friendly experience.

May these activities inspire you to deepen your connection, strengthen your bond, and create a marriage that reflects the divine love and unity exemplified throughout the holy scriptures.

I hope this blog post has been helpful. If you have any questions, please feel free to leave a comment below. Shalom, and may your journey as a couple be filled with love, joy, and “oneness."